What becomes of the broken-hearted?
So many people describe their 1st love as unique; millions stand by the idea that there is no love like it…nothing comes near to your 1st love right?
It took me years to get over my 1st love; so I get the roots of this thinking, I do.
But I don’t think it’s for the reasons we think…
Is it the love that’s unique?
Or just the experience?
When we have our heart broken for the very 1st time, it is NEW and immensely painful. And we just don’t know how to deal with it. We feel shock; immense grief; confusion; depression and helplessness. We are overwhelmed, empty, and without any skills from past experience to even compare it to. Many of us revert back to infantile ways, to cope with the pain, because we don’t know any other way…
Please take a meander with me, onto my friend who is a ‘Soldier’ Read the rest of this entry