Inexperienced Experts Piss Me Off!

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There is nothing more irritating in life than the people who claim to be experts on an issue that they have no experience of

A bit like people who write entire books on parenting when they’ve never actually cared for a child for more than a day…They tend to take a ‘preachy’ view on issues, and feel they are superior for knowing what really makes a good parent, when in reality, they’d fold up and over if they were left alone with 3 kids for more than an hour

I’ve met a few people who ‘preach’ about true love, when they’ve never really cared for a partner properly, let alone loved them

Unconditional love is without doubt a beautiful process, the kinda love we have for our siblings or our friends…Time, distance, change, rejection, location all interfere with this kinda love, but if it’s unconditional it never leaves, we forgive and still love because we have no control over taking it away

Being in love though, whether we like it or not… it is different. We start out in a blaze of glory and before long, we begin to behave like idiots because we’re often in a bit of an emotional pickle when we fall IN love

It’s not perfect, or god like, and it doesn’t feel the same when time, distance, change, rejection and location interfere with what once felt like perfection

These experts tell us that if we truly love someone, we wouldn’t behave in ways that damage the person or the connection…I say these people are deluded, because describing love and feeling love are two very different things. 2 imperfect people who love each other screw things up, they say things they don’t mean, they neglect each other, they find themselves disappointed with each other and often, the love changes and if enough pain is present in the recipe, sometimes, it eventually flies the nest

The real experts on ‘love’ are those who have lived through the absolutely shitty experience of thinking about someone 24/7, they are those who have survived unrequited love, those who remember the butterflies and the excitement of waiting for their lover to knock on the door. It is these people that know true love, not because they are highly knowledgeable or rational, but because they know nothing and feel everything and poften they are incapable of being anything near to rational because true love drives us crazy, just as often as it makes us feel like were flying

So – to all the love experts who chuck out advice on a thing that is nothing more than a concept to them, I suggest they button ‘the trap’, and halt the tips of their fingers on a keyboard until they have actually felt the agonising process of a broken heart, it feels like nothing else on earth! It is wholly about feeling and very little to do with perfect treatment…We’re just not that evolved yet

I think Mr and Mrs Expert should be quiet and concentrate on describing phenomena that doesn’t involve the mind warping insanity that comes with being in love, in reality, people don’t wish you well or always do the right thing, when their heart has been made, broken and shattered by someone they love

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About Littlebeut333

'Random Spillages from a Reportedly Strange mind’… Hello all :) I’m Dawny, the littlest of the Beuts..and my brain spillage content varies from the profoundly philosophical, to utter bilge ://…Life is my inspiration. I write about friends, love, the soul, society, shrinks, people, labels, home, mothers, perfect moments, dirty politicians, music, pain, beauty, women, religion, god, mental health, the demise of humanity!!! etc…hence the ‘random’. All spilled through the eye of my ‘ever musing, slightly philosophical mind’. Although I write mostly for enjoyment, and to empty my oh so busy head; sharing my snippets appeals to me, and I also love reading the thought trails of others. I would be most chuffed if anyone comes across my page and has a browse (and if you do, thanks in advance). I guess the biggest compliment would be if, for you, my rambles are either :- slightly different from the norm, enjoyable, amusing, unenjoyable, and/or thought/emotion provoking. Whatever them thoughts or emotions might be…The good, the bad, the ugly..and everything in between!! ;)… I accidently fell in love with writing a while ago, and from that time, my inspiration has come solely from lifes varied encounters, feelings, knowledge, memories and thoughts. Welcome to my archives, to some sections of my mind :0 Dawny

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